The waiting is over

You're probably thinking, 'the waiting is over? Woohoo! She's come back to him!'

But no, it's completely the opposite. After spendind more time with her today, this morning and then again this evening, I ended up giving her some kind of ultimatum, 'cause I can't keep doing it like this.

I explained to her that I couldn't keep on wanting to be with her, and then driving her home to be with another man. I told her that I loved her, and wanted to be with her forever, to look after her and be looked after by her, but I couldn't continue being her 'kissing friend'.

I told her that because I couldn't keep on doing this any more, I didn't want to see her until or unless she was single, that it was up to her to decide who she really wanted to be with. If I never heard from her again, I'd understand what her answer is. But if she contacts me again, it has to be because she's decided she doesn't want to be with the other guy any more, and she wants to be with me much more.

So with her very angry and upset about this, I dropped her off back near her place, and I said goodbye. I may or may not hear from her again, but I think it was the best thing I could have done.

Categories: Wakana, Relationships