Some great advice for men from a woman's perspective:

• Don't be nice
• Be compromising
• Be independent
• Be assertive
• Don't be boring
• Don't be romantic
• Don't be sensitive
  

Read more about them here.

I agree with everything she says, and think you should have a read yourself, so that you can learn from someone who 'gets it'. Don't be what you think women want. Be yourself, and women will love you for it.