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Friday, April 21, 2006

Handling her male friends

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Blogger Peter Hagerty said...

It all starts with taking responsibility. If you uncover for yourself all the reasons why you are an asset to any relationship you will become more aware of your own value and become more centred. Whether your partner responds to this or not is their choice but when you have enough quiet confidence in yourself you are able to give of your generosity of spirit. This means you can talk in terms of your partners and value and make her feel valued.
If you appreciate yourself, you can then extend to appreciate your partner and honour her for all the wonderful things about her. Once you enter a state of true gratitude then there is little that will faze you.

Even if she does leave you at that point, being centred in yourself will attract a wonderfully appropriate partner. It may even give you time to yourself if thats what is most appropriate.

It can start with responsibility and appreciation for oneself and if you stick to it you'll come to appreciate others. When this happens they tend to treat you really well.

4/21/2006 03:14:00 PM  
Blogger passion said...

absolutely true Peter/Alan!

4/24/2006 03:13:00 PM  

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